Saturday, September 3, 2011
The Key to Effective Leadership
7:02 am edt
---This is the last of a series of posts identifying
the Workplace Bullying Institute's four bullying leadership archtypes. I invite you to begin with "The Screaming
Mimi" archived blog followed by "The Two Headed Snake", "The Constant Critic", and "The
Gate Keeper". Just click XML to the right of this post to see all of my previous blogs. I hope
you laugh out loud.
And for those of you being bullied at work, know you are not alone. It really is, as Dr.
Dan Olweus states...."a matter of human rights."---
The moment we've all been waiting for:
The Key to Effective Leadership! Take it away Captain Effective Leader!
C.E.L.-"Thank you Kim.
Leaders, you’ve held the potential for true and effective leadership all along. Your employees,
like all people--no matter their age--want you first to be a person of your word. They know you are not perfect.
They will forgive you many things if, even in your imperfection, you demonstrate honor, courage, integrity and a good
sense of humor. Always remember this acra.....this acro....what's that word Kim?"
C.E.L.-"Yes. That's it. Thanks. Leaders always lead with.....
Effective Leaders take time to listen.
R. espect. Effective Leaders, even if they do not agree, always demonstrate respect.
A. uthority. Effective Leaders are confident.
Effective Leaders are authentic and jenuine individuals.
(M.E. to Y.O.U)--Hey, he’s Captain Effective Leader, not Captain Effective Speller!
E. nthusiasm. Effective Leaders create excitement.
R. esponsibility. The buck stops with an Effective Leader.
K. indess. Effective Leaders
are patient, caring and compassionate people.
M.E.- "Er....excuse me Captain Effective
Leader, you have spelled genuineness incorrectly. It’s spelled with a “g”.
C.E.L.- Oh, that’s right. I’m glad you’re here! Hey, my name's Effective
Leader not Speller! Thanks Kim. (he laughs at himself and moves on.)
M.E.-to M.Y.S.E.L.F.-"Wow. I like and respect him even more now....."
C.E.L.- Remember this. U.R.A.J.E.R.K.
Repeat it. Many times. U.R.A.J.E.R.K., U.R.A.J.E.R.K., U.R.A.J.E.R.K.
Captain Effective Leader looks at M.E..
C.E.L.-"Do you understand?"
Captain Effective Leader looks at Y.O.U.
C.E.L.- "Do you understand?"
Captain Effective Leader looks at Mr. Bully Boss.
Mr. Bully Boss pauses a moment. He scratches his head….."THAT’S
THE BIGGEST BUNCH OF C%^&#@P I HAVE EVER HEARD! GIVE ME THE &^%$#* KEY! I WANT THAT KEY!!!"
Captain Effective Leader and I look at each other. We shrug.
C.E.L. and M. E. together--"Some
people will never get it!"
Next up we'll begin to sew for "His Nakedness." The emperor makes
his first appearance....
Have an amazing week. Be courageous.
Click here for my district's bullying and harassment policy. You will see I have made comments....